What is mental illness and what is mental health? I shall try to define these terms. But before I do, let me inform you that the statistics show that mental health problems are prevalent in British society. According to the mental health charity Mind:

“1 in 4 people will experience a mental health problem of some kind each year in England.
1 in 6 people report experiencing a common mental health problem (like anxiety and depression) in any given week in England)." 1
 
Common forms of mental illness

Interestingly, it is estimated that as many as 8 in 100 people in the UK overall are affected by anxiety and depression. Most people who experience mild or moderate anxiety and depression can function in their everyday lives to a greater or lesser extent. However, severe anxiety and depression are extremely debilitating conditions that can ruin a person’s life and prevent them from participating in society. People with severe symptoms are often “invisible” because they may rarely be seen out and about. Few members of the public understand just how disabling mental illness can be unless they have experienced it themselves or have a family member who is chronically ill.

Other forms of mental illness include a range of clinical diagnoses such as Mixed Anxiety and Depression, Generalised Anxiety Disorder (GAD), Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD), Phobias, Panic Disorder, Eating Disorders, Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Anti-Social Personality Disorder (ASPD). According to the National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE), the most common mental health problems include depression, GAD, social anxiety disorder, panic disorder, OCD, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).

Severe forms of mental illness

The most severe forms of mental illness are categorised as being serious mental illnesses. These are the disorders that produce the symptoms of psychosis and include Schizophrenia and schizoaffective disorder as well as severe forms of other disorders, such as major depression and Bipolar Disorder.

Living with and caring for a person with a severe mental illness can be extremely difficult and challenging. Unsurprisingly, many carers are vulnerable to experiencing depression and anxiety because of many different factors, not least of all the relative social isolation that often accompanies their personal circumstances.
 
So, what is it to be mentally healthy?

Now that we know what conditions are defined as forms of mental illness, I would like to define what is meant by mental health. Firstly, it is worth mentioning that in general I find most people would prefer to talk about mental health rather than mental illness, perhaps because that feels easier given the stigma associated with mental illness. Sometimes the two terms “mental illness” and “mental health” are used interchangeably, and they have almost become synonymous. However, being mentally ill is obviously quite different to being mentally healthy.

Mental health, in my opinion, is more than simply the absence of mental illness. It can include all the positive activities, habits and behaviours that demonstrate the presence of mental well being and stability. These activities, habits and behaviours may have a proven positive effect in as much as not only do they show that a person is mentally healthy, but they may also help a person to maintain good mental health and prevent mental health problems.

Behaviours, activities, and emotional processes

A discussion of mental health needs to include the key positive mental and emotional behaviours that so many of us can take for granted in our everyday lives. Such things as being able to sleep well at night, being able to function during the day and maintain mental focus on everyday tasks, being able to maintain a routine, being able to maintain healthy relationships and friendships, being able to regulate our mood and control our feelings and so on. These are the “normal” things about which we barely give a second thought, but we would surely notice if we found we could not do them anymore. Any number of a range of mental illnesses or psychological disorders could disrupt a person’s ability to function normally.

In fact the World Health Organization, of which we have heard a great deal since the onset of Covid-19, states that:

“Mental health is a state of well-being in which an individual realizes his or her own abilities, can cope with the normal stresses of life, can work productively, and is able to make a contribution to his or her community.” 2
 
Characteristics of a mentally healthy person

Perhaps just as important though, are the characteristics of a mentally well person and the ability of that person to seek fulfilment in life, whatever that means to him or her personally. For one person that may mean climbing the corporate ladder to the very top, whereas for someone else it could be finding pride and satisfaction in growing their own fruit and vegetables. Neither does it matter if a person is an introvert or an extrovert. The characteristics of a mentally healthy person include having a sense of belonging, having a sense of self and healthy self-esteem, being able to laugh at themselves, feeling comfortable in the company of others, being able to form lasting friendships and relationships and feeling in control of their emotions so that they are not overwhelmed by powerful feelings such as anger, jealously, anxiety and so on.
 
Anyone can succumb to a mental illness

Any one of us could develop a mental illness at any point in our lives. Mental illness is not something that affects only certain people and not others, although biological and environmental factors do have a part to play. Life could be going wonderfully well until something goes wrong. For instance, it could be an unexpected physical illness, finding out that a partner is having an affair or being made redundant. Suddenly life can change drastically, just as a wheel turns either in one direction or the other. These profound life changes can throw a person off balance and into a state of low mood or anxiety. It might be difficult to sleep at night, insomnia could set in, loss of appetite or eating too much, losing interest in going out and seeing friends or family. A person can quickly spiral downwards, and low mood can progress into full blown depression.

I would like people to aware of this and to never take their mental health for granted, neither to judge or fear someone whose mental health has broken, who has become mentally ill.
 
References for statistics

1. https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/statistics-and-facts-about-mental-health (Copyright Mind)

2. https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/mental-health-  strengthening-     our-response  

For further help and information

• If you are feeling severely emotionally distressed or suicidal can call Samaritans for help on 116 123 or email [email protected] in the UK.
• NHS Choices website: https://www.nhs.uk/using-the-nhs/nhs-services/mental-health-services/where-to-get-urgent-help-for-mental-health

• I work in private practice providing help to people who are experiencing mild to moderate symptoms of common mental health problems including stress, anxiety, low mood, lack of motivation, lack of self-confidence, low self-esteem, body image issues, fears and phobias.

 
To find out more:

Text or ring: 07856 201869 or
Email: [email protected]
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​The issue that has consumed my time and energy significantly during my life and for my family has been mental health. Mental health matters and mental illness have been a continuous theme, and I suppose it was inevitable that I would eventually choose to work in the sector. The 10th October was only ever important to me because it is my birthday, so I find it is one of life’s tragic ironies that this date is designated World Mental Health Day.

For most of my life I have experienced the heartache and pain that mental illness can bring as close family members have struggled with their symptoms. During times of extreme stress, I have experienced my own difficulties, depression and anxiety, which I have thankfully overcome without requiring psychiatric intervention. I suppose I am one of the more fortunate ones, strong enough to get back up again when I fall – one of life’s survivors. Many are not so fortunate, fall and break and never recover, never find their feet in the world again or succumb to their symptoms rather than face a life of continuous mental torture. Sadly, for some people suicide is the only solution that they can identify for themselves when stuck in the pit of deep despair.
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Amidst my upbeat posts on social media is a message that I am trying to get across to anyone who is suffering. That message is simply that life is worth living if you can manage to keep going, to trust that things may improve, though nobody can promise you that, let’s be real. But maybe, just maybe, things will improve, you may start to feel a little better and that process may gain momentum. Oh yes, there will be ups and downs, but what if you find that you can cope just a little bit better with the low times than before? Perhaps you might be feeling just a little bit stronger within yourself; a little bit more centred, more grounded, calmer and what bothered you so much before doesn’t quite shake you off balance anymore. And it is these tiny steps that matter – these small, almost insignificant steps forward that eventually add up and become compounded to make all the difference. So, if there’s just one thing I want anyone who is suffering from a mental health problem to do now it is NOT to lose hope. More than that, try with love and compassion for yourself, to allow a space in your heart for hope to reside. Make a home for it and cherish it like a beautiful, precious flower. Allow it to blossom and bloom and one day you may find yourself free of those unpleasant symptoms that plague your life or at least more able to mange them and find pleasure again in being alive. So be hopeful and cherish that feeling, believe in yourself and your body and mind’s potential for healing and never give up on yourself.
 
If you or someone you know is suffering from acute mental health symptoms, such as psychosis or suicidal thoughts, seek medical help urgently. Contact your GP or your local community mental health service.

I help people who are suffering from mild to moderate symptoms of a wide range of emotional and mental health conditions. I have chosen to specialise in the treatment of stress, anxiety and associated conditions including low mood because that is something I know a great deal about.

To find out more:

Text or ring: 07856 201869 or
Email: [email protected]
Message: facebook.com/TracyDanielsTherapies
Or click on the link: Contact
 
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